“The most remarkable thing is that now I focus more on my own needs, purpose, and passions. I am happier than I have ever been, …
SEX & LOVE
Going through Darkness Together
I was feeling off the last few weeks. I had several days of migraines and my joints were hurting. There was a lack of flow …
When You Get Triggered
A woman described a recurring frustration in her marriage: “I get so mad when my husband forgets to buy stuff on the grocery list. He …
Using Sex to Grow
Sex can be used for a lot of things, many of which are not exactly healthy or wholesome. It can be used to dominate partners, …
The Best Relationship Lubricant: Happiness
The first time I heard it said that happiness is something we choose, I thought to myself, “Ha! That’s some refrigerator-magnet BS!” At the time, …
Keep your Relationship Fresh and Alive
Maybe it’s because I lived the better part of my life in Denmark where the greyness of winter seems interminable. By the time spring shows …
5 Tips For A Loving New Relationship Year
As we make our way into a new year, it’s a good time to reflect on the state of your relationships, and to set yourself …
A Different Look At Commitment Issues
Do you or your partner struggle with commitment? Have you been looking for the reason why you or they can’t commit in relationship? Or do …
Your Partner Doesn’t Trigger You
Sonika and I went to a show for Sonika’s birthday a few weeks ago. We saw The Empire Strips back at the Great Star Theater …
Relationships Issues And High Expectations
As a younger man, I really wanted to find “The One”. I was much too private to tell anyone, but I wanted a happy-ever-after …