July 4, 2023July 4, 2023SEX & LOVEThe Best Relationship Lubricant: Happiness The first time I heard it said that happiness is something we choose, I thought to myself, “Ha! That’s some refrigerator-magnet BS!” At the time, …
May 12, 2023May 12, 2023SEX & LOVEKeep your Relationship Fresh and Alive Maybe it’s because I lived the better part of my life in Denmark where the greyness of winter seems interminable. By the time spring shows …
January 27, 2023January 27, 2023SEX & LOVE5 Tips For A Loving New Relationship Year As we make our way into a new year, it’s a good time to reflect on the state of your relationships, and to set yourself …
December 10, 2022December 10, 2022SEX & LOVEA Different Look At Commitment Issues Do you or your partner struggle with commitment? Have you been looking for the reason why you or they can’t commit in relationship? Or do …
October 30, 2022October 30, 2022SEX & LOVEYour Partner Doesn’t Trigger You Sonika and I went to a show for Sonika’s birthday a few weeks ago. We saw The Empire Strips back at the Great Star Theater …
September 30, 2022September 30, 2022SEX & LOVERelationships Issues And High Expectations As a younger man, I really wanted to find “The One”. I was much too private to tell anyone, but I wanted a happy-ever-after …
August 19, 2022August 19, 2022SEX & LOVERelationships in the Digital Age Some time back, my daughter asked me to rub her back. I noticed myself hesitate. My addiction to my phone took over – I wanted …
April 26, 2022April 26, 2022SEX & LOVEThe Importance of Feeling Heard Just last week, a woman sent me an email saying, “I am so sad and frustrated that my husband doesn’t listen to what I say!” …
April 5, 2022April 5, 2022SEX & LOVEProtecting The Vulnerable Parts Of Your Relationship Have you ever had a hard time softening and reconnecting with your partner after being hurt, misunderstood, or unfairly blamed? Is it challenging for you …
February 26, 2022February 26, 2022SEX & LOVEThe Victim Strategy in Relationship What is your first response when you hit a wall? When your partner disappoints you or when you don’t get what you want? Do you …